Then why is he still your boyfriend?
He is an alcoholic. WHY do you want to be involved with that?
He is abusive. the verbal abuse WILL expand to abuse of inanimate objects (slamming doors, hitting walls, throwing things), and eventually to physical abuse like shoving, slapping, and eventually hitting with fists and maybe even broken bones or choking. Adn this COULD happen to any children present! Do YOU want to be responsible for taking a DEAD BABY to the ER>
YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP NOW!!!!
No more questions,. he IS NOT going to change, so you have to..
DROP HIM, and find some one sane, safe, and sober.