My boyfriends friend was also invited.
She had said she MUST meet everyone that goes to ger wedding before she invites them.
I met her at the club. I'm fine with her but she seems to not like me with my boyfriend.
My boyfriends friend who was also invited barely started to date a girl ( I would say 2 months) He asked her if his gf can go. I couldn't hear everything clearly...but all I heard was what they wanted to eat. So therefore I assumed they're going.
***I'm still not invited****
She tell's my bf to call her.
My boyfriend calls her to see if I can go.
She say's she forgot to ask her husband.
*** days later***
She says: oh we have to finalize the guest list. If people don't go then she can take their spot.
we call his friend ( the guy one)
we called him to get another friends phone number.
We also ask are you going to her wedding.
Hé says no. He's going out of town.
So then I'm like ok yaya!!! That means I get to go!
I think it was the next day or 2 days later.
She calls my bf.
Leaves a msg.
Saying I can not go. They had finalized the guest list & there's no room.
But she has no idea that I know that his friends not going.
So I am a bit bitter towards the situation that she's going back on her word. I don't care if she likes me or not. But the fact is it makes no sense so if one of your friends got married & just because you didn't meet his or her wife they can't go!? lol.
& her wedding isn't even fancy.
Probably $20-70 per person.
I was planning at the minimum to give her $200 cash & a gift.
Since I'm a bit bitter I really am putting my bf inbetween her & I. I really don't want him to go. I feel like to this point its her or I. SHould he have to make that decision? Should he go? or not!? I've been putting up with her treating me like ****! I've had enough.