I dated this guy for more then 3 years, it was kind of love at first sight but alot of under lying sexual attraction. Our relationship was just perfect, we both were each others first, we had so much in common, we could do anything together. After a tramatic event happened between him and me occured around our 2 year anniversary thing went down hill, I became depressed, I blamed him for what happened to me, alot of fighting, and I no longer wanted to have s** with him, ever. We kept things going even though things werent going well (I'm thinking because we both didn't want to try and find someone else because we were just comfortable with each other). I started to become bored of sitting around his house, we never went on dates, ever, he never had a job so he never would spend money. All he wanted to do was fish and ride bikes (hobbies of his that I use to pretend to like, but hate more then anything). I lost respect for him, I really didn't care what I said or did to him, and he seemed to want was s**. I left him several times and got back with him to give him second chances, things would be great for a couple days, and go back to the horrible boring relationship it once was. He just won't change. But my question is, is there really any hope left for this relationship? Can I really just gain back respect for someone? I enjoy his company but he constantly disrespects me by touching sexual, which angers me but he just won't stop. Should I just cut my loses? Can things get better if I try to make things work? Or will it always end up the same horrible way?