Anyway, I've been deeply in love with this younger man for the past 6 years. He's 35 years old(19 years younger than me). He's in this pathetic, immature marriage. He and his wife have two sons together(ages 17 and 15). One minute he loves her, the next minute he wants a divorce and then the very next minute, their trying to work it out. Just a month ago, he took his wife to the Bahamas for their tenth anniversary. I saw the love in their eyes from the pictures I've seen on facebook. My heart was broken but as a married woman myself, I can't be a hypocrite.
Now today, he's telling me that since his boys are both 18, he wants me to leave my husband, patiently wait for him and he'll leave his wife once his sons leave home. I know he loves me but he must think I'm stupid. He will never leave his wife even though I want him to. This man thinks just because I'm not even in love with my husband anymore that I have nothing to lose if I were to leave. NO. My life is comfortable the way it is. My husband and I respect each other and leave each other alone. All I wanted to do was to spend time with my boyfriend whenever he gets time away from his wife. I never PRESSURED him to leave her, since I'm not leaving mine. So, why is he stressing the issue? What should I say to him INSTEAD OF breaking it off? Advice?