Ask your wife, would she like it if you received a total body massage, without your privates being covered and massaged?
I'm sure she would say hexx no! Well, that's exactly how you feel. There's a difference in a massage and nudity. If the guy had a business where she would go and has clients,that's one thing. It's professional, and no privates would be massaged. Real masseuses NEVER EVER touch another person's privates, that's NOT massage.
The question is: "Why is this guy not a professional masseuse anymore. People don't just STOP being masseuses. They have had training and hold a degree. Used to? Sounds like he was a *** star or something. What a ***.
Let your wife know that there is a difference between a professional masseuse with his own studio, business card and licensed with the city you live in. This guy is NOT a masseuse. Next time you wife will get raped or worse. Let her know people are not what they claim to be. You are here to protect her and if she doesn't listen to you, then her life is in somebody's hands who may not be who they say they are.
Your wife is foolish not to check the person's credentials. How many people have you read about who vanish off the face of the earth from creeps like this. That's why our children go missing forever, or end up killed.
I don't want that to happen to your wife. This guy is a charmer and he's probably a s** offender. Check out your county's s** offender listing. He may be on it. He's grooming your wife for a crime of horror. Don't let this happen. If it does, she will never be the same.
Or she may come up missing. And the guy? He's left the apartment bare, and used a fake ID. Who KNOWS who he really is?
Creepy huh? You betcha. I'm from San Francisco. You have to keep your eyes open -- people will take advantage of people like your wife. The girl has no common sense.