I would rather that I take care of my family with my money, and my taxes only go to roads, bridges, schools, fire trucks, etc. I am more than willing to live with the consequences of my actions, and you should too, as mine don't cost you a dime, and I make it a point not to be your problem. Don't be mine. I have too many people who have unavoidable troubles like illness and injury that I want my social service taxes to assist.
Why is it that no one ever seems to raise the bar and give an example of what to strive for, instead it seems they are always calling for more tax dollars to bail some one out (usually again) of poor life choices.